Thoughts about foolishness

This morning, I was looking for the weirdest song. Okay, I guess that there are even worse music productions than that specific song but it was pretty bad. After I found it, I sent it to a really important person in my life, who will now call Scooby in order to protect his privacy - or because he just doesn't know that I'm writing about him-. After having listened to it, we kept on talking for a while. We just made fun of the song and then we became a little sarcastic with ourselves.

What is the moral of this story you ask. The moral is to have people in your life that you feel free to share with them the craziest and stupidest things without worrying that they may criticize you or they may think less of you.

To be honest, in the beginning I was really hesitant about sending the song to Scooby because I didn't want to give him the wrong impression about my taste in music or to give him an excuse to laugh at me. But then I thought that I don't mind if he laughs at me. And that is because I know that he loves me and the things he may say would aim to make me laugh and not to hurt me. Besides, I have the courage to talk back to him despite the fact that I am really shy.  My shyness takes the lead only when I am around people that I don't know at all or when I am around people that I don't know well but that is not the case here. 

I feel that most people are really careful with their sayings and their deeds in front of the people they love because they are afraid that they may disappoint them or embarrass them. Of course, behaving in a childish and immature manner like revealing secrets, restricting or doing things he or she doesn't like and so on, would make the other person want to keep his or her distance from you. But if you are a little or a lot goofy, you should not hide it. People that you can call family will accept and love you just the way you are. What is more, they may even enjoy your company more, since you can make everybody laugh. 

So, when you are with people that you have mutual feelings of love and respect, don't hesitate to be yourself no matter how crazy you are. Do all the stupid things you like with no worries.